This Story is from a stutteringforum.com user named 'd fluent guy'. I posted it here so you can read and it can be a help to you. ENJOY.
I started stuttering about 25 years ago(I was about 6 yrs old then) by mimicking someone who stutters.
I am naturally very social and intelligent always wanting to express my
self but my stutter got so bad that I was always depressed due to the
fact that my true personality was constantly being suppressed as I could
not express myself without stuttering badly.I narrowly missed a first
class in architecture and many other achievements due to this.
I tried all I could- from meditation,conscious breathing,use of
technological gadgets,hypnosis,research and all others.When I realized I
was probably going to live with a stutter for the rest of my life
suicidal thoughts started crossing my mind (I was about 26 then).
I stuttered till I was thirty.The turning point for me was realizing my
brain could not deliver what I do not feed into it(more like garbage in
garbage out). Direct(stuttering in my brain) and indirect(I can't do
thoughts) stammer thoughts were actually the culprits perpetuating my
stutter and there was really nothing wrong with me.I also realized that
stuttering is automatic and can be changed with conditioning.
What I did was to constantly and consciously think of my self talking
slowly, loudly,clearly and confidently(without any iota of doubt) in my
mind for some days.I completely shut down all avoidance tactics and
stammer thoughts.I also stopped all facial contortions which came as I
speak.
In reality, I deliberately started talking slowly and confidently
emphasizing the first word in the sentence I speak.It worked like MAGIC
as I could feel the difference and this encouraged me to go on.I also
summarized my day by speaking to my self in the mirror for many
days(more like facing my stutter). After some weeks, I was not
struggling to speak fluently,the words naturally flowed and blocking was
reduced to almost zero.THE FEAR DISAPPEARED.I even tried to
deliberately stutter on words I earlier had problems with but the
stutter was no where to be found.Now I feel totally in control of my
speech and all the negative emotions are gone.I no longer avoid speaking
situations.
I strongly believe if we forget all our worries and focus on that fluent
part of us(everyone has this), our stutter will cease to be mountains
but stepping stones to greatness.
I ENCOURAGE YOU TO JOIN stutteringforum.com WHERE YOU CAN ALSO RECEIVE HELP FOR YOUR STUTTERING CURE.
Leave your comment below if you like this post or if you have any question.
Tips And Unique Information On How To Overcome And Stop The Embarrassment Of Stammering/Stuttering
Friday, March 22, 2013
Tuesday, July 31, 2012
Best Tips On How To Stop Your Stuttering Fast
Do you want to know how to stop your stammering? If yes,
then I have you in mind and am making this post for you. Throughout we I was a stutterer I have tried lots of
methods and get healed herbs which didn’t work for me until I sat myself down
and begin to research on what I can do to cure my stuttering problem. In this
process I got to know that I’m responsible for my speech and my cure of
stuttering.
Then I begin to put those methods to work until I was completely
free. Now I’m here to share some of those tips that have helped me for you. I want
you to know you can take start now and take charge of your life. You don’t have
to keep blaming your parents or God Almighty for making you a stammered.
No! Stop, STOP & STOP. It’s not God neither is it your
Parents..That is the work of nature and you have the power within you to change
that situation. It doesn’t matter how you re born...What matters is how you
live the rest of life. You see yourself this way but do know you can do
something about that problem and get rid of it from your system.
Ok back to the tips I said I will share with you on how to
get rid of that “Kick Ass” Called stuttering:
1. I Have The Whole Time In The World Method: I know
as a stammer you will always want to rush to talk and to express your self very
fast, because you may be thinking there is no time. So you want to talk fast
like the other people [your listener]. But change that mindset now. Have the
mentality of “I Have The Whole Time In The World” that means you can decide to
talk anytime you want to talk. Not to let anyone pressurized you to talk fast. Calm
down and take your time to talk. If your listener can not wait for you to take
your time to talk, then let him or her go.
Feel good about it and relax. So friend,
you have the whole time in the world, so take your time, relax and calm
yourself down before you SAY ANYTHING. If you form this habit, it will help you
calm down your body system and you will see yourself speaking well without
stammering.
2.Talk To Yourself in a Mirror Method: have you once taught about this? You will agree with me that stammering cause you to become angry most times. Yes there are many things that cause as the result. Maybe you re envying other people’s speech, someone makes fun of you, or you were not given the time to express yourself, and lots more reasons. NOW! You don’t have to continue with that habit anymore. It’s a bad habit and has not mounted any positive change to you since. So it ought to STOP. Like yourself, be happy, cherish yourself, feel good about your life, always be thinking the positive side of you, those things you are good at and talk them to yourself in a mirror.
Here is what to do. Get a large standing
mirror. Mount it on your room and any where you can be having access to it
privately. Write down those things you know you re good at, even if you think
you are not good on anything…Do you know you re unique, that means no one like
you on the face of the earth? Include some motivational words of that paper. Example”
I’m a success, I speaks well, I don’t stutter, my life is beautiful, I’m unique
none like me on this earth, I don’t rush my words, I’m in charge, I’m in
control, call your name [Paul] you re precious,
etc.. did you get the Idea now? Write those sweet and motivating words on
paper and every time [morning, afternoon and night] declare them to you-self on
the mirror. It will build your confident, makes you like yourself more and
makes you get rid of that stuttering consciousness and you start having I can
do all things mentality.
Try them, and you will surely see some changes. I will
share more of these tips to you later. I have to stop here for now. So keep visiting. But before then you can
leave your comments or any other contribution. Cheers. I Love you and want you
well soon.
Monday, July 30, 2012
Ari kreitberg "Kill Your Stutter" Product Review - HOW TO STOP YOUR STUTTER TODAY!
"Kill Your Stutter" Product Review
This Anxiety program consists of high quality content and
illustrations written by professional writers in collaboration with experienced
professionals that specialize in natural anxiety treatments.
Hopefully, you are
not the type of person that gives up easily; I will hate for you to purchase
the kill your stutter program and not put it to use, because you are frustrated
or because you do not have time to read through the guide. I am guilty of not
reading some books sometimes when I buy them, then it sits on my book shelf
waiting to get read. Please do not do that with the "Kill YourStutter" ebook.
With the "KillYour Stutter" ebook, you want to jump on it and go through the program
right away. The quicker you follow through the stuttering guide, the faster it
will be to kill your stutter.
What is "Kill Your Stutter"?
"Kill Your
Stutter" is a program by Ari Kreitberg, designed to help get rid of
anybody's stutter. Adults and children can kill their stutter with the
"Kill Your Stutter" digital ebook guide. It was created to remove any
anxiety or panic attacks that are influencing your stammering speech. Most
people do not even know why they stutter and the cause of it, but this guide
explains everything and more.
Company Info
Kill Your Stutter is a product of a man who has encountered
many problems due to stuttering. The program is backed up with solid research,
as well as personal, first hand experiences from the author. It has been on the
market for some time now and has received quite a stir among people who have
problems with stuttering.
Product Specifications:
Kill Your Stutter is an e-book, which aims to help people
who have problems with stuttering. It has a step by step guide, which you must
follow to achieve the best results.
Customer Support: E-mail
address is indicated in the website
Return Policy: 60 day
money back guarantee
>> Click here to visit the site
What does the "Kill Your Stutter" book consist of?
The e-book provides a step by step guide on how to eliminate
stuttering effectively, forever. The website says that you can actually kill
your stutter in as little as 10 minutes just by following the information provided.
When you first open up the book, you will quickly realize
that there are tons of easy to read exercises for you to do. The wonderful thing
about the exercises is that, they are easy to do and it does not matter if you
are in the car driving or sitting at home watching tv or in bed, the exercises
were meant for you to do them anywhere. I do not know about you, but I love books
that require me to go through them on my own time, because it does not pressure
me.
Kill Your Stutter helps you to get rid of stuttering, simply
by finding and eliminating the root causes of the problem. These could be anxiety
attacks, or panic attacks, which often make it hard for some people to speak
clearly. The goal is to control and put an end to these feelings, so that you
can react to any situation with more confidence. This way, when you are
confident about what you are saying, the chances of stuttering are very
minimal.
Here Is What You Will Discover Inside:
* Be the easiest guide you've ever followed to stop stuttering
Simply follow the step-by-step guide and see fast results.
* Let you discover the "secret" that costly speech
therapists don't want you to know about: The reason for this is because if they
sell you something that ends your stuttering for good, how are they going to
keep getting money from you? It's a business for them after all!
* Teach you the most up-to-date and latest tools to end your
stuttering within seconds, VS. spending hours and money on speech therapy where
you're putting in way too much effort!
Save you immense research time. More like eliminate -
because you just follow it.
Ready to NEVER stutter again in your entire life.
Kill Your Stutter Testimonials
What other users had to say...
Here's what others had to say about the Kill Your Stutter
Program:
"Absolutely
amazing product. Why didn't I use this stutter stopping vehicle earlier? You
guys came up with an insanely effective technique in this one ... once again
not only works but prospers and causes any user to see the immediate value. I
call it the 'stutter retirement' product!"
- Jay Gould.
Tampa Bay, Florida
"One can spend
over $10,000 or more on speech therapists ... and still not get even a fraction
of the real-life results that this can bring. Despite my initial skepticism,
I'm quite impressed with what Kill Your Stutter is and is doing for me. I would
have never thought!"
- Albert Sheppard
Austin, Texas
"I can tell you guys have put a lot of effort into
this. Now coming from someone who is not experienced in speech therapy at all,
your ease of use and sincere offer for help really make a big difference.
I feel comfortable
because there's a guiding hand to fall back on anytime. This system is simply
wonderful and I'm very, very happy to be using it for the goal of stopping my
stutter."
- Mary C.
Los Angeles, CA
"After trying
this out inside, all I can say is WOW, triple wow. Everything is literally
pre-done for me here.
I'll flat out say it
- this is probably one of the only things I would have needed to get myself rid
of my stutter. Even if I was on my last hundred bucks, I'd try it because I
know its based on solid research and really works.
I almost wonder why
didn't you guys come out with this earlier?!!
Fortunately, I'm not
in such a situation anymore and I'm going to recommend this to my friends and
family that suffer from stuttering.
Anyhow, this is going
to sound harsh but you'd have to be very, very self-sabotaging to actually not
make results just via this simple to follow technique. You'd have to try really
hard to fail and that's an understatement of how sure-fire this thing is."
- Jim Normand
Denver, CO
Kill Your Stutter has an Awesome Guarantee
Kill Your Stutter has an Iron-Clad 8 Week Unconditional
Promise:
"Within 60
days... if you're not completely stutter free after giving these techniques your
sincere effort, then just contact us right away for support. If we truly can't
guide you and prove that failure is NOT an option, then we'll promptly REFUND
EVERY RED CENT. This is why it's a virtually RISK LESS offer."
Kill Your Stutter is
Fast, Easy, Economical
If you can't tell I was pretty impressed with Kill Your
Stutter. It is based on fundamental exercises and processes you can go through
to end your stutter.
How much would you
pay to end your stutter - TODAY? $200...$100...$50?
Kill Your Stutter is ONLY $37.00!
That's a great price,
for a great product, that is 100% guaranteed!
The Good Side Of "Kill Your Stutter" Product:
> Kill Your Stutter is a versatile, feature-packed product that’s also extremely easy to use, which means it’s more likely to be used.
> The quality of content has improved immensely.
> It’s totally portable, meaning it can go with you on a thumbdrive, smartphone, or other portable device and run on any Windows PC.
> %100 Money back guarantee.
> Simple to use. It saves your money and saves your time.
> Pretty open and user friendly.
> Kill Your Stutter is by far one of the best products that I have tested in this category.
> Easy to operate, I personally hate anything that is very complicated as if made for the experts’ sake.
> Kill Your Stutter is a versatile, feature-packed product that’s also extremely easy to use, which means it’s more likely to be used.
> The quality of content has improved immensely.
> It’s totally portable, meaning it can go with you on a thumbdrive, smartphone, or other portable device and run on any Windows PC.
> %100 Money back guarantee.
> Simple to use. It saves your money and saves your time.
> Pretty open and user friendly.
> Kill Your Stutter is by far one of the best products that I have tested in this category.
> Easy to operate, I personally hate anything that is very complicated as if made for the experts’ sake.
The Bad Side Of "Kill Your Stutter" Product:
> I haven’t found any yet!
Review Overview
Product Name: Kill Your Stutter
Trustworthy Yes. It’s legit.
Publisher Web Site: Kill Your Stutter
Availability status: Limited
Money Back Guarantee: Yes
Publisher Conduct: Extremely Good
Total Downloads: 186
Download Last Week: 67
Editors’ Rating: – Excellent
User Rating: – Excellent
Money Back Guarantee: 60 Days Unconditional
Contact E-mail: Visit Official site.
Refund Rate: None so far.
Product Status: Tested and found exquisite. Not Scam.
Saturday, February 16, 2008
THE POSSIBLITY OF STOPING STAMMERING !!!!
WORKING ON YOUR'' MIND'' TO MAKE IT POSSIBLE
1. Is possible for you to speak freely, if only you believe you can . why? b/c your mind plays a big rule in your life , infant your mind works with your thoughts and your thoughts and words dominates your life.so work on your mind, believe you can speaks well , believe your good to talk well , believe you can speak good or even better than so so so and so
2. Do you know ''stammering is the problem of the mouth ,but with the mind''.so refuse to see yourself anymore as a stammering.see yourself as someone that 's good in everything ,even in your speech.
3. Your mind ! your mind!! your mind!!!, is very important if you living free from stammering is your passion. work on your mind.see the good part of yourself, love yourself, have time to talk sweet words on a mirror just only for yourself.
YOUR MIND MUST WORK IT OUT ALSO.
SO IS POSSIBLE TO LIVE FREE FROM STAMMERING.
1. Is possible for you to speak freely, if only you believe you can . why? b/c your mind plays a big rule in your life , infant your mind works with your thoughts and your thoughts and words dominates your life.so work on your mind, believe you can speaks well , believe your good to talk well , believe you can speak good or even better than so so so and so
2. Do you know ''stammering is the problem of the mouth ,but with the mind''.so refuse to see yourself anymore as a stammering.see yourself as someone that 's good in everything ,even in your speech.
3. Your mind ! your mind!! your mind!!!, is very important if you living free from stammering is your passion. work on your mind.see the good part of yourself, love yourself, have time to talk sweet words on a mirror just only for yourself.
YOUR MIND MUST WORK IT OUT ALSO.
SO IS POSSIBLE TO LIVE FREE FROM STAMMERING.
My Advice And The Lessons To Learn On My Stammering Story
OK, i from the last post i posted b/4 this one now TITLED" THIS IS HOW I STARTED STAMMERING"
as i shared my story on how i started stammering and promise to expose the lesson
parents can learn on my story on behalf of their child or children, and my advice to anyone
that s stammering now.
Now let me just start hitting the points
TO PARENTS:
1, God committed your child into your hand so you can brought him/her up in a
good life style [not a life style of stammering] but to speak well.
So you re responsible for the way your speaks at his/her early stage.
2, I know you will love your child and will not want to be bitting him/her always
but , don't just keep quit to let the bad habit of stammering to dominate your child.
the child may start stammering at his/her early stage ,but never as a parents to allow
him/her to continue on that wrong life habit.
3,lastly ,remember the future of your child, he /she will not be happy to grow up as
a stammering b/c of the difficult and the struggle it will take him/her to pronounce a word.
So guide him/her on how to speak on an early stage ,teach him/her how to speak well and give a well speech, and also refuse him to stop stuttering or stammering as early as he /she started it .
Don't allow it [stammering]on him /her by advising him/her not to speak that way b/c of his/her future.
TO MY STAMMERING PEOPLE.
1. Don't give up on yourself, you can still stop it.
2. Now remember your life is now in your hand b/c you have grow up now
[not just on your parent hand] start searching for the solutions for your problem [stammering]
WHICH THIS SITE IS ALL ABOUT; http://www.stammereingnomore.blogspot.com/ and also join a stammering forum like:www.stutteringforum.com/forum.
3. All you will need for the cure and to free yourself from stammering is here and i will still be shared more
on this site , so keep visiting and enjoy reading , all are hot and fresh informations on stammering cure, solutions, etc.
Wishing You Well.
as i shared my story on how i started stammering and promise to expose the lesson
parents can learn on my story on behalf of their child or children, and my advice to anyone
that s stammering now.
Now let me just start hitting the points
TO PARENTS:
1, God committed your child into your hand so you can brought him/her up in a
good life style [not a life style of stammering] but to speak well.
So you re responsible for the way your speaks at his/her early stage.
2, I know you will love your child and will not want to be bitting him/her always
but , don't just keep quit to let the bad habit of stammering to dominate your child.
the child may start stammering at his/her early stage ,but never as a parents to allow
him/her to continue on that wrong life habit.
3,lastly ,remember the future of your child, he /she will not be happy to grow up as
a stammering b/c of the difficult and the struggle it will take him/her to pronounce a word.
So guide him/her on how to speak on an early stage ,teach him/her how to speak well and give a well speech, and also refuse him to stop stuttering or stammering as early as he /she started it .
Don't allow it [stammering]on him /her by advising him/her not to speak that way b/c of his/her future.
TO MY STAMMERING PEOPLE.
1. Don't give up on yourself, you can still stop it.
2. Now remember your life is now in your hand b/c you have grow up now
[not just on your parent hand] start searching for the solutions for your problem [stammering]
WHICH THIS SITE IS ALL ABOUT; http://www.stammereingnomore.blogspot.com/ and also join a stammering forum like:www.stutteringforum.com/forum.
3. All you will need for the cure and to free yourself from stammering is here and i will still be shared more
on this site , so keep visiting and enjoy reading , all are hot and fresh informations on stammering cure, solutions, etc.
Wishing You Well.
Saturday, February 9, 2008
THIS IS HOW I STARTED MY STAMMERING LIFE.
Am writing this to share my own life touching story on [HOW I STARTED STAMMERING] with you
so that you can learn some few things from it .
I was brought up by my parents that loves me so much ,and will do everything to make me happy.
How did i started STAMMERING?
It was an answer i can not remember to answer,b/c my stammering start from my small age .
But according to my parents, they told me that it all [MY STAMMERING] started from my nursery
school age.
According to them i started learning how to STAMMERING by myself , i always pronouncing words wrongly, and always STAGGING on any word Whenever i want to pronounce, and it seems like as if
i was joking to them. and because they loves me so much they don't want to border me at all, nor even do they want to correct me, nor even beat me or shout on me to stop that [STAMMER].
They just keep thinking that i will stop it soon, which i didn't. Until i grow up with it and they [my parents] was not happy for it. that is MY SPEECH, and the way I STAMMERER.
So my good people, thats how my stammering life started .
LATER HERE , i will share with you how i cured my STAMMERING, and the LESSONS parents must learn from this my story. and the young ones also, and my advice to all that STAMMERERS.
STAY TUNE.
so that you can learn some few things from it .
I was brought up by my parents that loves me so much ,and will do everything to make me happy.
How did i started STAMMERING?
It was an answer i can not remember to answer,b/c my stammering start from my small age .
But according to my parents, they told me that it all [MY STAMMERING] started from my nursery
school age.
According to them i started learning how to STAMMERING by myself , i always pronouncing words wrongly, and always STAGGING on any word Whenever i want to pronounce, and it seems like as if
i was joking to them. and because they loves me so much they don't want to border me at all, nor even do they want to correct me, nor even beat me or shout on me to stop that [STAMMER].
They just keep thinking that i will stop it soon, which i didn't. Until i grow up with it and they [my parents] was not happy for it. that is MY SPEECH, and the way I STAMMERER.
So my good people, thats how my stammering life started .
LATER HERE , i will share with you how i cured my STAMMERING, and the LESSONS parents must learn from this my story. and the young ones also, and my advice to all that STAMMERERS.
STAY TUNE.
Thursday, February 7, 2008
7 PROVED METHODS I USED IN CURING MY STAMMERING.
Stammering-stuttering is a speech dis-order which you may have been born with , or may have just discovered in your speech. Which makes it hard for you in making telephone calls ,talking to friends , speaking in public, and so on. Now is important that you to understand what the problem is , and also understand how you can overcome it[which I'm handing into your hand right now]. What I want you to know is that you have the ability within you to re-condition and cure your speech dis-order problem known as stammering-stuttering.
THESE ARE THE 7 PROVED WAYS YOU CAN USE TO CURE YOUR STAMMERING .
1, Relax your mind whenever you want to speak, don't force yourself to speak, knowing that nobody can force you to speak fast , So take your time to relax b/4 you say any word.
2, Write down any of those words that you find difficult to pronounce,And take sometime to be practicing those words ,by pronouncing them regularly to yourself. By doing this, you will begin to master those words and you will start pronouncing them effortlessly.[remember ,you master whatever you regularly practice].
3, Start practicing reading loudly : you can just take any book of your choice and stay away from any distractions and start reading it loudly to yourself. By doing this, it helps you to stay calm your voice, and teaches you how you can be speaking calmly and fearlessly. It also expands your voice muscles to speak effortlessly.
4 , SINGING LOUDLY: sing loudly along of any song of your choice will also helps build more confidence to yourself , And also does the same thing reading loudly will do for you.
5, Never again give place to angry , depressions, and worries in your heart ,b/c these things cannot help you to overcome or cure the stammering-stuttering problem, but can even increase it more and more. So you have to replace those negative things with the positive ones,By being joyful, friendly,involving in the things that makes you happy,etc.
6, Don't rush yourself to speak : stammering-stuttering has a force,by which causes you to struggle whenever you want to say something . but you can recondition your from this by ;Learning to take a dip breadth in and out before you said any word, so don't try to rush yourself when speaking. Be calm , and relax, calm your mind down and relax your body whenever you want to say a word.
7, Be confidence of yourself ; people with stammering are sometimes afraid to speak boldly in public, b/c of their fear of stammering , But never allow this anymore , have a positive thought of yourself always. Think about yourself as someone who that speaks well ,[remember, stammering is a problem of
the mind, not with mouth]. So start seeing the positive areas of yourself . Now you can start wearing your best cloths, coming out confidently, engaging in talk shows, talking with friends, etc,by doing this, the fear of stammering will vanish away and you will represent itself with confidence. and you will see yourself speaking normally as you couldn't have done before.
THESE ARE THE 7 PROVED WAYS YOU CAN USE TO CURE YOUR STAMMERING .
1, Relax your mind whenever you want to speak, don't force yourself to speak, knowing that nobody can force you to speak fast , So take your time to relax b/4 you say any word.
2, Write down any of those words that you find difficult to pronounce,And take sometime to be practicing those words ,by pronouncing them regularly to yourself. By doing this, you will begin to master those words and you will start pronouncing them effortlessly.[remember ,you master whatever you regularly practice].
3, Start practicing reading loudly : you can just take any book of your choice and stay away from any distractions and start reading it loudly to yourself. By doing this, it helps you to stay calm your voice, and teaches you how you can be speaking calmly and fearlessly. It also expands your voice muscles to speak effortlessly.
4 , SINGING LOUDLY: sing loudly along of any song of your choice will also helps build more confidence to yourself , And also does the same thing reading loudly will do for you.
5, Never again give place to angry , depressions, and worries in your heart ,b/c these things cannot help you to overcome or cure the stammering-stuttering problem, but can even increase it more and more. So you have to replace those negative things with the positive ones,By being joyful, friendly,involving in the things that makes you happy,etc.
6, Don't rush yourself to speak : stammering-stuttering has a force,by which causes you to struggle whenever you want to say something . but you can recondition your from this by ;Learning to take a dip breadth in and out before you said any word, so don't try to rush yourself when speaking. Be calm , and relax, calm your mind down and relax your body whenever you want to say a word.
7, Be confidence of yourself ; people with stammering are sometimes afraid to speak boldly in public, b/c of their fear of stammering , But never allow this anymore , have a positive thought of yourself always. Think about yourself as someone who that speaks well ,[remember, stammering is a problem of
the mind, not with mouth]. So start seeing the positive areas of yourself . Now you can start wearing your best cloths, coming out confidently, engaging in talk shows, talking with friends, etc,by doing this, the fear of stammering will vanish away and you will represent itself with confidence. and you will see yourself speaking normally as you couldn't have done before.
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)